An Open letter to Bee

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She understood that the hardest times in life to go through were when you were transitioning from one version of yourself to another.

Hey Bee!

Life hasn’t been too easy on you lately, and I am truly sorry about that. But despite it all, you have managed to keep your head up and continued fighting throughout. Evolving and transition is not easy, but trusting the process and letting go of comfort zones is what you’ve done!


Be proud of everything you have gone through, and mostly, what you’ve become.

Bonnie, Stop being so hard on yourself.

Everything will make sense to you one day. All the pain, hurt, and frustration will become worth it. Stop trying to figure EVERYTHING out! Remember, everything happens for a particular reason. You are in the exact place you are meant to be right now. So breathe, be patient, and trust the course of your life. Let go of all the expectations you have created in your head. Accept reality as it comes. Accept life for what it is.

You are so strong my dear.

You have been through SO MUCH yet ALWAYS come out on the winning end. The world has tried to break you, but you never let it. So thank your past, for it has made you into a better person today. You are walking in shoes many can’t imagine trying on for a moment.

Remember not everyone you meet is meant to stay around forever. People will leave you. On the contrary, you will also leave others. People will disappoint you, and all you can do is learn to appreciate them for what they have taught you. Thank the people who have stayed. Fill the spaces of the ones who have gone.

Even though you think you are broken, there is so much beauty in your pain. Also, you’re really not as broken as you think you are. You are stronger than anything that has tried to tear you down. You are a survivor, not a victim. So with that, try not to be so hard on yourself, we both know you’re doing the best you can.

Help others. Be a good friend and make sure to be kind of your family. Be selfless, not selfish. Love like you never seen pain before and forgive yourself for any pain you’ve caused. And if you do not find the strength to do so, just make sure you find enough love for yourself.

I Thank you for never giving up and always being tough. You inspire others and you lift them up. Stay strong. Stand up tall. Be more beautiful than ever. Make them wonder how you do it.

Your spirit has been down long enough, I think its time you get up and get back out there! 

Love your inner spirit
The Curly Bee!


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Mistakes help you evolve. Make them, don’t be hard on yourself, learn from them and evolve

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Forgiveness deepens your ability to love and frees you from pain.

Bonnie Humpherys